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LETTER: I’m A Teenage Virgin But My Boyfriend Is Pressing For S*x


Dear Aunty Grace,

I am an ardent reader of your replies to people’s letters and I found them quiet helpful. Now it is my turn to ask for your motherly and professional advice.

My name is D.R. and I am newly admitted student of one of the tertiary institutions in Akure, Ondo State. I am 18 years of age but I met this boyfriend of mine immediately after secondary school and we have been very close for about 7months now.

At first, we agreed that their wont be anything like s*x between us but when my friends who are also in a relationship start to discuss their s*x life with their boyfriends, he will start to mock me.

I truly love him and don’t want to lost him to another girl but now that I am going to school, he is asking me to prove my love for him by allowing him have s*x with me.

What do I do? I have been avoiding him for weeks now, thank God for ASUU strike because I should have gone to school since.

Please ma.

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REPLY: I’m A Teenage Virgin But My Boyfriend Is Pressing For S*x

auntygrace1Dear Virgin,

If you are a virgin now then please stay a virgin!

It’s very rare to find one in this century so don’t let anyone make you lose your virginity just because you don’t want to lose him to another girl!

If he loves you, he will respect your wish to remain a virgin! Tell him you want to save yourself for that special guy who’ll put a ring on your finger!

What if you give in to him and he still goes ahead to date other girls ?? How will you feel then?

Just imagine the pleasure , pride and respect your husband (and yes, you Will get a husband!) will have for you when he finds out on your wedding night that you are still a virgin ! Girl , for him that will be water in the desert!

Don’t worry about your friends discussing their sex lives. Either leave when they start such discussions or interrupt and ask them to explain the Oedipus complex!

Take care!

Aunty Grace