If you are a virgin now then please stay a virgin!
It’s very rare to find one in this century so don’t let anyone make you lose your virginity just because you don’t want to lose him to another girl!
If he loves you, he will respect your wish to remain a virgin! Tell him you want to save yourself for that special guy who’ll put a ring on your finger!
What if you give in to him and he still goes ahead to date other girls ?? How will you feel then?
Just imagine the pleasure , pride and respect your husband (and yes, you Will get a husband!) will have for you when he finds out on your wedding night that you are still a virgin ! Girl , for him that will be water in the desert!
Don’t worry about your friends discussing their sex lives. Either leave when they start such discussions or interrupt and ask them to explain the Oedipus complex!