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REPLY: Issue with my boss

 

Dear Jr,

You know what they say the boss is always right. You don’t want to be on the wrong side of your boss!
What I suggest you do is when next he asks your opinion or advice , put it in a memo and say something like:
“ Sir /Ma, kindly refer to your instructions for me to ….I will respectfully advise that you/we do…etc etc ( then give your advice as best as you can ). Hopefully by reading it, he ll have more time to focus on the advice and not brush it away . Good luck with that !

Aunty Grace

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Replies: “Career Path”

 

Dear Mk,

Choosing a career path could be confusing especially if you are multi talented.
My advice is to you would be to choose a career in a field that you are passionate about. That way, you’ll enjoy what you do because nothing kills passion faster than doing something you don’t like or that you are not interested in!
So good luck in choosing a career in a field you have interest in.
Take care.

Aunty Grace

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REPLY: My Wife Wants To Kill Me With S*x Demand


Beautiful woman - Grace

Dear B,

Yours is certainly a peculiar problem!

The usual thing is to hear a woman complain that her husband is not having sex enough with her with questions like” does He love me?” “is he seeing another woman?” Such thoughts would run through her mind giving her sleepless nights! In your case however, your wife wants sex all the time!

Lucky guy! (most would say) because all that most people hear from their wives is “not tonight dear. I have a headache!”

My first thought would be get it up man- but before you dash for those blue pills or enhancers, I would advise you to see your doctor first so you don’t end up with more complications!

Have a discussion with your wife when she’s sober and not in a Randy mood and tell her you feel your life is in danger if she does not reduce her craving for sex. The sheer exhaustion may kill you!

Hopefully, if she loves you she just might see it your way and let you rest a bit.

Maybe talk to her mother or your pastor but talk to somebody!

Good luck!
Aunty Grace

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REPLY: I Hate the Career Path My Parents Choose for Me

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Dear Caring,

I’m sorry your parents seem to belong to those we call “old school “ and who do not realise that children today excel when they like a particular profession or course.

Talk to your advisor or principal to try and explain to your mother that you will not do well if you don’t follow your heart and do the course you like.

Also find an uncle or aunty who your parents respect to help you convince them to let you study a course of your choice.

Good luck!

Aunty Grace.

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REPLY: I’m A Teenage Virgin But My Boyfriend Is Pressing For S*x

auntygrace1Dear Virgin,

If you are a virgin now then please stay a virgin!

It’s very rare to find one in this century so don’t let anyone make you lose your virginity just because you don’t want to lose him to another girl!

If he loves you, he will respect your wish to remain a virgin! Tell him you want to save yourself for that special guy who’ll put a ring on your finger!

What if you give in to him and he still goes ahead to date other girls ?? How will you feel then?

Just imagine the pleasure , pride and respect your husband (and yes, you Will get a husband!) will have for you when he finds out on your wedding night that you are still a virgin ! Girl , for him that will be water in the desert!

Don’t worry about your friends discussing their sex lives. Either leave when they start such discussions or interrupt and ask them to explain the Oedipus complex!

Take care!

Aunty Grace

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REPLY: “…I Am Dating A Colleague Because My Husband Can’t Satisfy My Sexual Desire”

Dear Vee,

The saying -“one man s meat is another man s poison readily comes to mind.
Most women complain that after Sex, the man just switches off and starts to snore!
Here you have a husband who cuddles you after sex showing how much he cares for and appreciates you.
Believe me, many women will be glad to trade places with you!
Now to your question, having an affair while married is a sure recipe for disaster so Stop it Now!
Talk to your husband in a loving manner and tell him you love him so much that you always want more when you make love.

Have you tried letting him rest a little before prodding him for more? He may be tired after the first round and perhaps just needs some rest before he goes at it again!

Anyway, do express your feelings and desire to him and he may just step up his game.
Be careful though, not to turn what should be a pleasant love making session into a stressful session!
Good luck!
Aunty Grace
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REPLY: “I need help, I am cheating on my fiancee”

Hi Cheater,

How would you feel if your fiancée was cheating on you eh? You know what yo do – STOP cheating or you will be jeopardizing the success of a marriage you hope will be forever.

Zip up and stop cheating!

It’s as simple as that ,and you certainly don’t want to go through the Shame and pain of being caught so Now is the time to stop fooling around and be true to your fiancée. You told her you are a virgin so how are you going to explain your “expertise “ in the act on your first night together?

Okay, seriously , stop it right now and be glad you’ll be marrying a virgin in this day and age!

Good luck!

Aunty Grace

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REPLY: My Fiancee had sex with ex-boyfriend

Dear Ekong,

This is a tough one!
I see that you really love her and are heartbroken over her cheating on you with her ex.
I suggest you sit down and have another heart to heart talk with her and tell her if she cheats on you again that’s it!
The ex calling you to tell you is mean and sly and he seems to be acting out the Dog in the manger syndrome.
For that reason I’ll advise you to forgive your girlfriend but hold on and wait a little longer before popping the question to see if she cheats again.
When you are sure she has repented and changed then you can go ahead and marry her (provided you still love her!)
Good luck!
Aunty Grace